Accept Your Shape
When you know for sure that you wear size X and a Y or Z zipper is required to get the garment closed, it is extremely frustrating. This in no way reflects poorly on your character or makes you look odd. This further demonstrates how off-kilter store sizes currently are. It’s not you; it’s what you’re wearing. If you go into a store with the mindset of “oh, I’m a size X,” you’re not going to have a good time. When you buy these garments, you may want to remove the tags. Modern women who care about their appearance know to buy a size or two larger than they normally would and then have their garments altered to fit their bodies. Clothes that are too large or small make the wearer appear uneasy and unprofessional. You should buy clothes that fit your current size and shape. Everyone has that one item in their closet that they bought with the intention of losing weight specifically for, but have yet to do so. You should break the cycle because it’s not cool and it’s making you hate your beautiful body. Buy new clothes that fit your body now out of respect for it. You can have your clothes altered if you anticipate a future change in your body type.
Get over the Name
Chic, well-dressed women rarely display their brand loyalty in their clothing. So often, after a night at a runway show or a gala, a stylish person is questioned about where she got her outfit, and the answer is always the same: J. Crew or Topshop. The quality and quantity of garbage on the market are comparable. A well-fitting, simple dress from LOFT is much preferable to an ill-fitting, un-you Prada number any day. It’s important to abandon preconceived notions and try out new brands and designers, especially now that we’re opening our eyes to new stores, doing more of our shopping online, and witnessing firsthand how the fast fashion trend has impacted the quality of retail as a whole. Here are some pointers for taking advantage of novel web stores: Investigate the refund and exchange policies before making a purchase. For how long can we make a comeback? Is there a try-on/return policy in place if an item doesn’t hold up? Do there monetary costs associated with returns? Is a pre-paid label available, or do you have to figure out the postage yourself? How about the return shipping company they use? Do you charge a restocking fee if you return an item? Don’t be shy about seeking clarification. Most modern stores will provide you with multiple channels of contact because they value your feedback. Don’t be shy about contacting the company for the details you need to make an educated purchase and avoid buyer’s remorse by using the site’s contact form or chat widget, a comment on their Facebook page, or a Tweet. Get a tape measure and learn your stats. Even among stores that use numerical sizing, there is no guarantee that a size Large will be the same from one to the next. A measuring tape with a light adhesive backing may come in handy if you are taking measurements alone. Look up some images of the brand on Google. Photographs featuring well-known brands and designers are more likely to be saved by bloggers like myself (search engine optimization). Google will also display images from websites that feature discussions about that particular brand and/or style of clothing. You can see if other people with a similar body type to yours have posted reviews or photos of themselves wearing the item.
Know Thyself
You’ve given up on looking like Audrey Hepburn, so you can stop believing you need X perfect pieces to dress well. The classic white shirt, the trench coat, the pencil skirt, and the little black dress are all examples. There are a lot of women who would love these pieces, but not every single woman. You have more curves than Marilyn Monroe, you live hundreds of miles from a city, and it never rains where you live; you’re an artist, a weekend warrior, and a customer at REI. Revisit your fashion diary. Putting on that rust-colored turtleneck and those brown tweed pants, did you feel powerful? Did anyone compliment you on your appearance or point out your striking green eyes while you were sporting it? Remember that gorgeous turquoise sundress you bought in Mexico two years ago? It was the one you wore when your husband complimented your appearance and your son’s teacher was shocked to learn your true age because she thought you were ten years younger. Because they best reflect your individuality, these items are likely to make you and those around you happy. I think it’s great when other women wear a fitted white shirt with a pencil skirt and slingback heels. I have a thick ankle and not enough definition from it to the heel to keep slingbacks up all day, a short torso, a belly, and large breasts, and most pencil skirts are unforgiving to these features. On the other hand, I feel most comfortable and confident in short shift dresses made of stretchy materials and tall boots because they complement my petite frame, hide my love handles and wide calves, are practical for my daily activities, and help me look put-together, fashionable, and authentic. The secret to a polished appearance and a sense of personal style is to accept and embrace your inner and outer selves. If you want to learn more about luxury fashion brands, check out Slingo.com.
General Guidelines for Looking Polished
These aren’t foolproof, but here are a few suggestions that could help you achieve a more put-together appearance: You need a new purse. It’s difficult to part with a bag once you’ve found one that fits your needs perfectly. There are probably threads sticking out of the strap, pockets that have grown too big, stains on the base, and creases in the leather to prove it. A well-dressed woman is aware that it is not who you carry but what, despite what social media would have you believe about needing a famous designer to make your bag or about the acceptability of wearing counterfeit to get the “look for less.” A well-cared-for bag of the right size and shape for your body and way of life, in a neutral color that complements most of your wardrobe, can look chic no matter how much it cost. You could get your purse updated by a cobbler or buy a new one with the money you were going to spend on a new outfit. Restyle your hair. A well-groomed woman does not always wear her hair in a messy bun or claw clip. Find a style that complements your personality and daily routine. Have fine, wavy hair and only five minutes in the morning? If you don’t have hours to spare every day maintaining a bob like Anna Wintour’s, don’t bother. Before your stylist shampoos your hair, have a chat with them. Before they start cutting, they should run their fingers over your skin and get to know you. You can’t defy nature and make your straight hair curly or your fine hair thick without a lot of effort. You should accept your hair the same way you accept the rest of your body. You should wear fewer printed items. The perfect wardrobe would include a variety of prints. The cake must be baked before the icing and decorations can be added. Pay attention to your foundational pieces, maybe even create a capsule wardrobe, and then “ice” it with prints and embellishments. Streamline your morning prep work. A well-groomed brow and clear skin are hallmarks of a well-cared-for appearance. The features of a polished woman are rarely highlighted or contoured, and she rarely has more than one or two statement features. If you find that your foundation is too thick, try diluting it with a drop of face oil or switching to a tinted moisturizer. If you want a soft wash of color on your eyes or cheeks, a cream is better than a powder. Try giving your brows more definition instead of your eyes. If you don’t have time for regular manicures but still want to look like you care about your hands, try using a buffing block. You could find that your appearance improves thanks to the streamlined routine. Tend to your footwear with care. They say a man’s shoes say a lot about him, but a woman’s shoes can say just as much. Your shoes require maintenance whether they are ballet slippers, classic pumps, or knee-high stiletto boots. Maintaining your shoes properly includes annual resoling and reheeling, polishing, careful storage, and prompt attention to any damage, such as stains or scuffs. Instead of spending your money on five pairs of trendy, disposable shoes, invest in one high-quality pair that will see you through many seasons. A pair of scuffed, cheap, and worn-down shoes will destroy your image, no matter how attractive the woman, how sassy the outfit, or how perfect the hair.
